God Is With Us
Apr
18
Helping Women Fear Less and Live More
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Lisa-Brit Wahlberg says
Hi micca! I just love your perspective and t he way your heart is focused on hearing the Lord’s will for your life. For me, full surrender to God’s sovereignty has been the only path to peace. It appeared so unlikely at first bc I hate giving up control. It felt scary….and Satan tried to fuel that fear as I my faith grew and the “switch” began ……..Now that I see the peace and utter relief of placing my heart in Jesus’ hands – I’m never want to go back to that place of fear….Thanks for your words… Can’t wait to read your book!
Pam McLaughlin says
Micca, Thank you so much for this word about fear. It was very interesting how to tell God given dreams and directions by the fact that we can never accomplish these outside of God’s provision and power! Awesome!
Pam McLaughlin
Kathy says
Thanks for your words
Nancy Verbicky says
Micca,
I really love my daily devotions and needed so much to hear this one on fear. I have lived a life of fear and this past 2 weeks has brought it so much to light with the placing my Mom in Long tern care. Not sure why that has such a bearing on things but I believe I’ve always had so much faith in a secure family and now that I no longer have that, I have had to turn to God for my strength instead of thinking that I have it all under control myself. I have also learned that I have so much to learn. I look forward to reading your book. May God always bless your journey.
Pamela Harris says
This topic speaks to where I am right now. Thank you for addressing fear!
Kendra @ www.abusywomanslife.com says
What a beautiful testimony of God’s loving provision. Thank you for being faithful and sharing your story. Not only did God bring you through your fear, He has now allowed you the opportunity to encourage others with your story. What an amazing God we serve.
Blessings,
Kendra
http://www.abusywomanslife.com
Donna says
Wow, what a powerful message and thank you so much for sharing. Personally experiencing the sudden deaths of my step-son and my mom I can relate to that feeling of fear when someone that’s calling doesn’t call, or when they are on their way and they’re late, though knowing God has control of it all you can rest in that knowledge. I am so looking forward to the rest of your book, An Untroubled Heart, and the path God has for me now after a recent separation and upcoming divorce. Thank you Micca for sharing your heart and what God has done and is doing in your life.
Katie Burke says
Hi, I just read your article on the crosswalk website and came to your blog to read more about what you had to say – not really to enter to win you’re books – I won’t lie – I always love to win something. Your article today was a minister from God to me today. I have been gripped in fear for so long but horribly so since I fled with my children from a Domestic violence relationship. I planned to run and never come back to protect my children. Once I was away I realized that running and hiding isnt who I am and my girls need to know what a strong woman looks like and that no one should ever treat anyone the way we have been treated. My very continuous divorce has been going on now for a year and 1/2 and will more than likely go to trial in June (mediation is this Fri April 22nd). My husband has tried to prove me as an unfit mother and is trying to take the kids away from me. He ordered a psychological evaluation (which we both had to take – result good for me – not so good for him) and a GAL and the girls counselor who have all proved the DV – which has been verbal except for our animals and is almost impossible to prove in the court system until they either beat you beyond belief or kill you – it is so wrong. My girls have suffered imeasurably through this and unfortunately their dad doesn’t believe he has a problem even after the GAL recommending DV treatment and counseling. He needs help and it is so sad to sit back and watch him destroy himself and not be able to do anything about it. My parents have spent almost their entire retirement (over $350,000) helping me save myself and my kids – my husband is out to destroy me and doesn’t care what it takes. It is really sad because it didn’t have to be this way – I just wanted out and for him to get some help for our children’s sake. Trial is looming, I’ve had to now hire a criminal tax attorney because of other things we’ve uncovered along the way that I had no idea he was doing and have to protect myself – my parents can’t afford to use anymore of their retirement – they have just enough to get by and will have be be very careful and I am afraid – where will the extra money come from to get to the end – if this criminal crud goes where I hope it doesnt I’ve been told it can be another $100,000 for that – I try to live in the moment – one day at a time – but the fear of the unknow. Is overwhelming at times. I will probably have to file bankruptcy at the end of this, go back to school at 41 to catch up on my computer skills after being a stay at home mom for the past 12 years (I do have my BA) and re-enter the workforce (jobs are so scarce!). I feel as if everything is working against me. Articles like yours remind me just how much God has lead me in this entire journey – his signs and answers to so many of my prayers have been so clear. I have to keep remembering to turn this over to Him because this is so much bigger than me and He is in control! Thank you for writing this article and bringing me to your blog. I will read the rest of you articles and they will keep giving me much needed strength. Thank you.
Patsy says
Katie,
I just want to tell you that I will be praying for you this week that your mediation will go well, in your favor, and that all else will be settled. I am so glad that you are trusting in God to bring you and your girls through this. I pray that you are involved in a Bible believing church, so you can get support there also.
Ann says
Katie:
I went thru a 3-yr long divorce, that just ended with my ex having to go to prison for making death threats against a deputy prosecutor. Yrs of emotional abuse, sexual assault of my teenage daughter that we could not prove in court, having to take the children into hiding at one point, almost losing the house to foreclosure, all the while dealing with a brain tumor… However, through the Lord’s grace and strength, and consistent prayers and support of friends at church, I am here, today, to tell YOU that He will bring you through this! He loves you SO MUCH, and He WILL be faithful to keep His promises – He CANNOT be anything but who He is!! And that is Forever Faithful and Loving! I will be in prayer for you, because I KNOW what you are going through! If you want someone to lean on, please email me! ~Ann, firefistams@yahoo.com
Micca says
Ann and others,
thank you for stepping in and praying for and encouraging Katie. This is what sisterhood in Christ is all about and I love it! Plese know that i’m praying for each of you and giving thanks for your faith in God.
Dawn Kravagna says
Dear Katie, Thank you for sharing your struggle. I will also be praying for you and your family this week. Please do not despair about the job market. The company I work for hired several persons recently for reasons unrelated to the economy. The media always focuses on the negative to get attention. My prior pastor sold his house for cash in a week in an “impossible” housing market last year. With so much bad that has happened in your life, it can seem like it won’t turn around, but you’ve seen God at work. It seemed like all was lost to the disciples, when Jesus went to the Cross, but Easter reminds us that after the darkness, there is the Ressurrection, new life. God bless you as you lean on Him.
Melissa says
Wow. I needed to read your post this morning. I so often allow my heart to surrender to the what ifs and not to the loving arms of my Heavenly Father. I like to be in control because I am often fearful when I am not. Thanks for sharing these truths with us today.
Denise says
Your devotion at Proverbs 31 really brought to light what I have been fearing for a long time. My first husband left me 12 years ago with a 3 year old and a 4 month old to go live with his girlfriend. I turned away from God because how could He have let this happen. My self esteem plumetted. It took 3 years to gain any sort of confidence. However, I did it without turning to God. “I could do it on my own”. Then I met my current husband and thought “I can do this” No one will ever hurt me again like that. I am healed of my lack of self confidence. We have been married for 6 years now and our marriage is and always was a struggle. We will fight and I would say to myself and him, I am never good enough. I can’t do anything right. Why do I always fail in his eyes. On, and on and on. Your devotion brought to light what I am fearing the most. Can I be good enough and if so, what do I do with that. I have to start believing that God knows I am good enough and stop believing the lies that Satan has put in my head and heart. Thank you for the message to turn to God and He will take away my fear and I can live with faith in Him.
Denise H.
Sherry says
Your blog is an answer to my prayer. My fears have been growing stronger and stronger in the past days, until yesterday I felt physically sick and paralyzed. Today you reminded me where the fear comes from and that I need to turn to God to as you said find my promise land. I thank God for you and for leading me to your blog.
Eileen says
After reading your story, I thought to myself, what would I have done, if this had happened to me. I knew who the Lord was, but I never depended upon Him. I just took everything for granted. Then after the death of our youngest daughter, something just kept calling me to begin a true relationship with our Lord. And that I did. I joined a Church and then became a Deacon. My trust is so great in Him now – I depend on Him and his Will to be done in everything that I must do. So much so, that after several years of going to Church by myself, my prayer was that my husband would follow, and that he did. God is Good!
Traci says
God spoke directly to my heart today through you. Thank you for sharing your story!
Elisabeth B says
Thank you for writing on fear. Everyone deals with it, but for some it is paralyzing. I am choosing to believe God’s promises over my feelings, and to believe the task at hand is bigger than me, but attainable through his strength and ability. I’d love to read your book! (You might want to check your quote from Joshua, unless you meant for it to be written that way! :))
Breinny says
Good morning, and thank you for your faithfulness! When I opened my email this morning, I felt as though God had hand-picked this message for me today. I am in the thick of struggling with my ministry calling – my head understands the truths you speak to me, but my heart is a step behind. As I prayerfully sort through this, your message gives me some clarity. Thank you! And thank God for working through you!
Take care,
Breinny
Jenn says
I have many fears and I am learning to trust God through them all, but that is easier said then done. I would enjoy reading your book and learning more. I also led a mom’s Bible study which I know would benefit from your book also. Thanks for the opportunity! Blessings & light, Jenn
Sara says
Our God Reigns! I woke up this morning listening to a sermon on my alarm focusing on the unchanged heart of a man who was in prison for murder. Completely unrelate to my life but an attempt from the enemy to redirect my focus from the main message. In the morning fog my thoughts immediately went to worry and fear. Knowing the struggle of fear too well the Lord led me to my knees and identified my foe. By God’s providence once again in my inbox was another Proverbs 31 devotional which spoke directly to my need! Praise God! I thank each of you for your obedience, humility, and sacrifice to serve and minster from the lessons the Lord has given you. Thank you!
Nneoma says
Came here from the devotional and was not aware of your series. Will be going over the other steps as well. But one thing that stuck with me is when you said that we need faith to overcome both fear AND self-assuredness. I sometimes use the latter to replace the former.
Holly Mckee says
My teenage daughter recently had a seizure and is now terrified that she will have another. She is letting fear and anxiety rule her and it breaks my heart that she is living this way. I would love to have her read your book and learn how to overcome this. In Him, Holly
Jamy says
Micca,
Thanks so much for sharing this series of posts on fears. It is something that so many of us struggle with. I know that here recently that Lord is calling me out and satan is trying to us the fear of failing to cripple me. If he leaves me ineffective, then he wins. I do not want to be captive to my fears. I want to be free. Thank you so much for speaking to my fears. I know that I need to quite the lies with the Truth.
Jamy
Loretta says
I love what you said in today’s devotion about False Evidence Appearing Real. How often in my life the very things I feared never came to fruition, praise God. God helped me face my fears when He called my family and I to travel on the road for four years into new environments on a regular basis. Now we are home for good and I am facing new fears, or shall I say challenges, in this environment as well. But God is faithful, He has been holding me up as I learn to surrender it all to Him and choose to lean on Him and not my efforts to control the outcome. Thank you for your post toady. I would love to read your book.
Diane says
Eleven years ago, I lost my ten-year old daughter to cancer. It shattered me, my strength, my courage, and most of all, my faith in God. God had let me down, and I feared whether he would or could ever be there for me again. With time, my faith returned, as well as my courage and my strength, but the fear is still there…and everyday I struggle and pray for the child-like faith that I had in God to return and overcome my fears. Thank you for sharing your story, I hope that reading your book will help me in my journey to surrendering all my fears to God once and for all.
June says
Thanks for the devotion today Micca.
Would enjoy a copy of your book.
Have a great day.
Lisa-Ann Hubley says
Thank you for your posting. I am in the midst of a very trying time, and I truly needed your words to remind me to rely on His power to see me through. I’m going to read your book, whether I win or not. Thanks again for the encouragement.
Colleen says
Micca,
I’ve just finished reading the first chapter in your book. You’ve made me realize I am living in fear, and I had no idea. My fear of my future, of the unknown, is buried so far inside of me. And here I thought I was sailing along on just uncertainty. :/
Through recent struggles with my health, and through the many challenges of life, I have learned to trust God so much more. But I know there is more I must learn. My heart is so troubled, and my peace never lasts.
Your story touched my heart. I am thankful God has carried you. I know He has carried me, and I have finally learned I only need to ask “Help me, Lord!” when I can’t go on, and He gives me the strength I need.
Amy says
God knew I need this today as it is an area I struggle with. Thank you.
Lisa Evola says
Hi Micca, I have from time to time had a very troubled heart. Mostly in doing things I thought God wanted me to do and receiving defeat. I know that I need to just press on but the greatest part of my fear is that it is not really what God wants me to do…..It’s just so hard to know sometimes. Anyway, this isn’t really about me. I have a friend Amy who lost her husband in Nov. and he did not leave her in very good condition financially or emotionally. She has been making decisions that everyone around her knows are not good decisions, but with her being an adult and all (she’s 46) we really can’t say much, just be there for her when she needs us. I think that these decisions are all based on a great fear in her heart and being that your book is your testimony of basically the same situation, I think that it would benefit her greatly to read of your experience and what brought you back. If I win this book I will pass it on to Amy with the prayer that she finds some hope and promise in her future. Thank you for your testimony….I do believe that they can help others who are hurting in just the same way. Lisa
deb says
Yes, you all can advise and strongly counsel her. Don;t sit silently and just pray. Yes, praying is amazing but jump in and help her. Lawyers say to widows, “don;t do anything major at least for a year. Wait.”
If you are too polite, apparently she is doing damage to herself.
Lynsie says
Your story is so encouraging. I’m currently on hospital bed rest with a very high-risk pregnancy so fear is a daily struggle for me. I would love to read your book. I know my faith will be lifted by your encouraging words!
Sue says
Thank you for the devotion and for the step-by-step instructions on conquering fear! This is something I have dealt with my entire life. I’m finding the closer I get to God in our relationship, the less I am anxious. I would love to be fear-free and live the abundant life He called me to live. I trust I’ll eventually get there:) You definitely are an encouragement!
Danielle Jones says
Oh, what a powerful and life-changing message. Thank you so much for sharing, Micca!
I hope you don’t mind, I’m going to compile all the posts together, read them and adapt them to my Daughters of Zion Discipleship group. They’re a precious group of girls, ages 8-12. So many of them have spoken with me about fear and I know this will help them!
Blessings sister!
Annette says
Micca,
What a blessing your devotion was to me this morning. Satan has had a strong-hold on me for several years now in the area of FEAR. I cannot seem to get beyond the what if’s. . .What if my son returns to drug addiction? Instead of God delivered him through this and he has grown in Christ; What if my daughter and her husband can never adopt a child of their own? Instead of God has a special child for them, in his timing. You see, I do not only live in fear for my children but also for myself. I fear food. I was what they term “Morbidly Obese”. I have successfully changed my eating habits from a Food Addict to a balanced diet and lost 170 pounds. The weight loss was very necessary but I now fear food and am 15 pounds below what my weight should be. I am heading in a very dangerous direction. All because I am letting Satan win this battle. I cannot let this happen. I will always remember what you said about False Evidence Appearing Real. I would love to read your book. Your devotion has given me peace and hope and now I am hungry for more! God Bless You for what you do!
Jessica says
Micca,
Your posts & story have been such an encouragement and blessing in my life! Over the last few years, I too, have found myself
Crippled by fear throughout many unforseen events-but
I have found God to be completely
Faithful to keep His promises! Your words of truth are like treasures
To hold onto on those fearful days.
Thank you for allowing God to use you!
Love,
Jessica
April V says
I’ve enjoyed your series, and would love to win your book!
Janel says
Thanks for the encouraging words!
Becky says
I was robed at gunpoint Saturday night while bringing my daughter and 2 grandchildren home after their visit. The after effect is temptation to fall into the pit of fear. The Lord told me to read your devotional this morning and I can see why. It is perfect for heading me on God’s straight and narrow way. I don’t know if it’ll fit, but I’ll try to copy my story here for you to read. Thanks for your help. Oh yeah, my husband and I have been missionaries in Peru for the last 4 1/2 years and this happened in Lima, Peru.
16 April 2011
Kelsey came over this evening as she and the kids often do. Joel was here as well. Around 9:00 Kelsey was ready to get her kids home to bed so I brought them home in our van. Sammy wanted out of his car seat so I reach from the front seat and unlocked the belts. I left the car running and put the emergency brake on then got out of the car and removed the stroller from the back of the car. Arianna had already fallen asleep in Kelsey’s arms and she was having problems getting her door open so she asked me to help her. Afterwards I turned around and told Sammy to jump from the car into my arms. Instead he threw me our house keys. I was surprised how easily I caught them in my left hand, not expecting them. Then again I said, “Jump!” and he did. I was bringing him over to the door when a car starting honking at me and blinking his brights. There was construction in the road and the area where I was parked in front of Kelsey’s house only had the one lane that I blocked. The person was being very insistent and I thought pretty obnoxious. I put my finger up in the air to say “Wait a minute”. I got Sammy to the door, Kelsey closed it and I headed for my car. Before I even got around the side of it, the person was turning around and two men had gotten out of the car. I thought they didn’t need to get through after all and the men were headed to their home on the street. I opened my door to get into the van when one of them stuck a gun in my face. I also saw the other man go to the other side of the car at the same time. My initial reaction was to say “WHAT ARE YOU DOING!?!!” then (or perhaps at the same time) grabbed the gun and pushed it to the side while holding it away from me. It was up next to his head pointing away from both of us. He tried to bring it back around at me, but I held firm. Then I began to scream. He said something to me in Spanish which I have no idea what it was and screamed harder and louder. In the scuffle I heard the door to the van close behind me. I was afraid the other guy was in the car. I kept screaming until the man with the gun suddenly left. The getaway car had turned around and the two men ran and got into the car and took off. The security guard was blowing his whistle and waving his arms at the car. (I had the vague idea that the guard was there when the man was pointing the gun at me.) Another security guard from the next street’s dog ran after the men like he meant business. I got into my car and locked the doors as quick as I could. I kept saying over and over, “Thank you Father, Thank you Father.” I wasn’t sure what to do next, drive home or try and get Kelsey’s attention. People started streaming out of the houses. One teenage boy went running after the car. Maybe he was trying to get the license plate number (something that didn’t occur to me at the time). I got out of the car when all the people came out of their homes but still didn’t know what to do. A man near was looking sympathetic but no one seemed to know what to say to me. Another security guard who was in uniform came over and asked me if the guy had a gun then he announced to the whole watching neighborhood, “Una pistola.” A woman and friend of Kelsey’s came over and gave me a hug. Then Kelsey, who had heard the scream, came out of her house and asked “Mom what happened?” I told her a man pointed a gun at my head and she ran over and held me. Ricky came out and told us to go into the house and asked us to go up to their apartment and be with Sammy while we wait for the police to come. He said I would have to fill out a report. I learned later it wasn’t to get my things back, but to be able to bring a police report when I got my Peruvian visa and US passport replaced. Sammy wanted to play which helped me concentrate on him instead of the robbery. After a few minutes he said, “Mommy, why are you crying?”. She told him that someone just tried to hurt Grandma with a gun and that is why she never wants him to play with guns. He sweetly said, “Okay, Mommy” and went back to playing. Ricky went through the details of the robbery with me and helped me realize they’d taken my purse from the car. When I heard the car door shut, they had grabbed the purse and ran. We called Robert and let him know what happened and had him look up my passport and visa numbers that I kept in our file cabinet. After a little while Ricky brought me to the police station and answered the investigator’s questions for me. Then he brought me and our van back to our home and he walked the 15 minute walk back to his own house. It was nice that he let me be comforted by Robert instead of asking for a ride back to his house. He is a very helpful and thoughtful son-in-law. Robert met me at our door and held me close. It was very reassuring.
I want everyone to know how God was there for me tonight.
The man stole my purse but didn’t get anything of value.
Robert asked for the 180 soles in my purse earlier in the day to exchange for soles so he could have money to give for the propane being delivered for the kitchen stove. I’d started baking some cookies when it went out around 5:00 that afternoon.
I had taken the i-touch and camera out of my purse the day before, something I am in the habit of doing when I don’t need it just in case something like this does happen.
As Kelsey was trying to get Sammy to get on his shoes to leave, I heard my cell phone ring it’s warning sound that the battery was low. Since Sammy was not moving very fast, I got my cord and plugged it into the outlet in the kitchen.
Sammy took my keys which I had left on the seat in the front of the car and threw them to me shortly before he got out of the car so I had put them in my pocket (Thank you Sammy!).
The car could have arrived earlier and Kelsey, Arianna and Sammy could have still been out of their house before it all took place. The timing of them going in the house and the guys getting out of their car to rob me was timely for them. I am most grateful for that!
I was concerned they were going to take our van which was a gift from my mother and like they were robbing her as well. That didn’t happen.
I often take my purse off my shoulder and set it on the floor of the van because it is more comfortable that way. They saw what they’d hoped would be something of value. With me resisting their robbery, I think they just grabbed what they could quickly and ran before the neighborhood was upon them.
It wasn’t the smart thing to resist someone pointing a gun at you. God protected me. Thankfully the gun did not go off and hurt someone!!!
I was not harmed physically in any way.
These robbers where “cheated” of all the things they’d hoped to get from me. God’s hand was in it all so very clearly and powerfully. I was in the palm of his hand! To God be the glory!!!!
Leslie Shelley says
Your devotional came to me just when I needed it most. I live ruled by fear. We have lived through so many years of financial challenges and I just feel so defeated many times, I am now working three jobs, and I am so very tired, all the time. Please pray for me, that I can hear God’s voice, sense his direction, and walk in the faith that he is providing for me. Thanks so much!
CHRIS S says
What an amazing story of grace, and that in Him, we are to press on no matter the unknown journey. Thanks!
Dana says
Micca,
What a wonderful devotion. I do so admire you. The sweetest young girl that I go to church with just lost her husband to suicide last week. She is in her mid 20’s. My heart aches soo for her and her family. If I win your book I think I will give it to her. She is too sweet to go thru this but our God knows what is best for us all. Thank you for your encouragement. Praying God’s blessings on you and yours.
Miranda says
I have really enjoyed reading your Biblical advice on fear. It’s probably one of my biggest downfalls! With children 15, 4 and 2, I fear and worry about EVERYTHING!! My husband always tells me not to worry about the future, just enjoy the kids now! For me, that’s so much easier said than done! Thanks again!!
Marge says
Your story has been a great encouragement to me and I trust the Lord will richly bless you as you continue to bless others by helping them overcome their fears. Thank you!!
Merle Anne says
God is so good. I was in bed this morning feeling particularly overwhelmed and anxious. I checked my email and saw your devo about fear then headed over to your blog. This was EXACTLY what I needed to hear TODAY. Thank you for sharing from God’s word and your heart.
Janice says
Thank you so much for your encouragement today. God knew I needed it. I was asked to speak at a Woman’s gathering and I know in my heart I am to do it, but I am so fearful of speaking in front of other women. I struggle with not being good enough, making a fool of myself etc., but the most important thing is that I love my Lord and want to be obedient to him. PLEASE pray for me this week as I speak before these women. Thank you….
diana cahill says
I’ve seen God’s hand on my life and my family so many times. However the past few years we have faced many problems with my husband’s health. Two weeks ago my brother died suddenly. The next week my husband’s biopsy showed small lung cancer shortly after his serious malignant melanoma surgeries. “Boulders” are rolling around us. Yet, God is sovereign, cares and loves us completely, and many great friends and family are praying. We are blessed. As soon as we returned home, turned to Proverbs 31 emails and read your comforting message this morning. Thank you
Diana
Karen B says
I agree with you, Micca. The unknown is what we fear. I’ve always said I’m not afraid to die but how I’m going to die: the unknown. We are instructed to be anxious for nothing, yet that is a challenge to carry out. Thank you for sharing and blessing us with your wisdom and experiences.
Karen says
I believe the Lord led me to subscribe to Proverbs 31 yesterday, and thus to your devotion and book page today, Micca. I have struggled with irrational (I’m told) fears that totally consume and paralyze me, and have prayed for a way to overcome them. Perhaps your book is God’s answer to my prayers.
Thank you for sharing your personal journey with us. May God bless you and keep you in his loving care.
Tammy says
What a wonderful testimony to us. Thank you for sharing your story and encouraging us to trust God with all things in our lives. Blessings to you!
Michelle P. says
Thank you for the opportunity to win your book. Like those before me I to suffer fear and need to be free. God Bless you and your ministry.
Linda says
Hello Micca!
Your P31 Devotion was really needed today! I have let events in my life paralyze me with fear and inactivity. I really like the acronym you gave – False Evidence Appearing Real. I have wanted to do some research in the Bible for verses I can hang on to and was thinking of the one you used today in Timothy. I was also thinking of Joshua – “Be Strong and Courageous” – it was repeated so many times. I really need to be an example and coach for my daughter, who I also see struggling with fears and anxieties. Thanks for sharing. I would love to read your book!
Jessie says
Linda, I’m so sorry to hear that ur daughter also is struggling with fear, ur post inspired me to give u some scripture that u can meditate on. Job 11:13-19, Psalm 34:4, 23:4, 27:1, 46:1-2; Proverbs 1:33, 31:21; Isaiah 35:4, 41:9-13, 51:7-16; Matthew 6:25-34; Philipians 4:4-9; 1John 4:16-19
I pray that these passages will b helpful & I want to thank u-because of ur post, it inspired me to search for them so I may meditate on them as well. God bless you & your daughter as u continue ur walk w/ the Lord
Linda says
Jessie – Thanks so much! You are so kind. I have copied the verses down and will look them up and print them so I can refer to them easily.
Linda
Mary S says
I can relate to your fear of speaking in public. I LOVE my ministry, but I have to speak in churches about what I do. My shaky voice, hands and knees wobbly, I trust Jesus and just do it. I do it afraid, but with an underlying peace (which makes no sense, but it means I am supposed to do what I am doing…). Every time it is hard, BUT everytime I speak, He gets me through. If I can speak to just one woman that needs to hear my testimony, it is enough. I would love to win your book, I have so much more to learn. Thank you for your words.
Betsy says
I love to read your insights on fear. They are very encouraging.
Cory says
Thanks, Micca, for your post. I’ve found that I don’t always know when I’m living in fear because fear disguises itself as other things, like doubt and confusion. But when I get to the core of the issue, it’s fear – which means I’m not trusting God and His endless capacity to take care of me. I would love to read your whole book!
Adoption Mama says
Your story is so profound. I have found myself fighting fear over the last 3 months as my oldest lamb has chosen rebellion again. Thanks for your encouragment.
LaTasha says
Thank you for this series. I am struggling with fear, doubt and loneliness. My husband just recently left me after 11 years for another woman and her kids and grandkids, and 1.5 weeks after he left I miscarried (I was 19wks pregnant) for the fourth time. I have been devastated and most of all angry. I fear that God will have me be alone for the rest of my life and that I will never know the joy of motherhood. I admit I find it hard to ‘see’ God in all of this and while my situation is not the worse ever, it is the worst thing to happen to me. I have wonderful friends, family and church base and God is constantly sending people my way for encouragement. I am learning to lean on Him, haven’t mastered the casting of all my cares on Him though.
Thank you for this series….it touches my heart tremendously.
Michelle says
The Lord knows what we need. What an encouragement – exactly what I needed this morning!
Gail says
Micca,
Thank you for your faithfulness in sharing what God is teaching you.
When I read your devotional today, it spoke to my own heart. As a woman who lives with clinical depression, fear often skews my perspective. I have posted your acostic on my desk for a daily reminder of Who is in control.
Then as I read your blog, I realized what a blessing your book would be to a young widow with a small daughter who has a ministry to help other young widows. I know your book would be an encouragement to her. No human understands like one who has also been there.
Blessings to you,
Gail
Carol says
Thank you for sharing your words and wisdom on fear. Fear (Satan driven fear) puts so many stumbling blocks in my way. I think my biggest is the fear of giving my heart.
Katie says
God speaks just when we need it most is once again proven true with your posts on overcoming fear. I am fighting the devil as he tries to poison my trust in my husband – we have recently come through something that was scary but not devastating, but satan is trying to devastate me with it! He jumps out and ambushes me with strong fears when I least expect it and it causes me to feel like I’m drowning in it and that it will never end – but then God speaks…in the Word I read, or through a song, or through someone like you who is giving of your time to encourage and teach people like me how to fully rely on God. I have never felt more vulnerable and humble and surrendered to God…it’s only been a month since the ‘incident’ and i look forward to days when there will be no more surprise ambushes, but for now I look forward to reading your book to discover more about how to live strong in faith knowing I have no reason to fear because I KNOW GOD WILL NOT FAIL.
Savannah says
I just wanted to say that you are such a blessing and that I am always touched by your blogs..I can only imagine how fantastic your book must be. Thank you for your encouragement!
Mandy Pyle says
About 2 years ago I found out that my husband had been unfailthful and had established relationships with women online. After being separated for about a year, we decided to make our marriage work. I can see God working in our lives. He has changed my husband in more ways than I could ever have imagined. Even though I see these changes and am extremely grateful, I am having a hard time letting go of what happened and moving on. I have been plagued by fear and doubt on and off since the “revelation” of the infidelity. I literally feel traped. It is affecting all aspects of my life. I am going to a christian counselor who is trying to help me work through the fear. It is extremely hard. I would really love to have a copy of your book to read to help me work through this hard situation!
Deanna Murray says
Thank you so much for this devotion and your words of wisdom It seems my ‘theme’ is about Joshua and trusting God completely. Trust and fear messages just keep popping up!
Kara W says
I would be thrilled to read your book! This is something I have been dealing with for about 3 years now. Thank you for sharing your heart. It has been a blessing.
Marisha says
Dear Micca,
thank you so much for the daily devotional. Very timely I got it in my inbox and I think I even heard it in my head (a calling to read it now; stop what I was doing at work and read it now). I read it slowly, trying to let every sentence to sink in with my conscience, because your devotional was exactly covering what has been troubling my mind and partially my heart for over a week now very intensively, even though I am trying hard to let God take control over the situation and over my emotions. And I think you gave me the confirmation of my suspicion- suffering from fake fear. Thank you for the power verses at the end- right on! I will try to memorize them today, so I can repeat them to myself when and if the next attack of fear comes around.
Thank you so much once again for such encouraging and timely devotional!
Lisa Elliott says
a perfectly-timed Truth for me today. I have battled the fears associated with “master-of-the-universe syndrome” so often on this journey, buying into the lie that “it’s all up to me;” remarkable, considering that i found such great joy as a brand-new believer in the realization that it is NOT. God’s Word of Truth so clearly dispells that lie, but any time i let the cares/chores of this world draw me away from my position at His feet, the slanderer is able to slip his twisted version of God’s words under my heart’s door. And the battle with fear begins anew.
Alicia Figueroa says
Thank you so much Micca i love your segment of delivering the word of God.. Your experience has encouraged me very much. All your articles are a blessing unto millions of women. Thank You so much for your love toward humanity and women that need to hear God from a woman…Im blessed to hear and receive your articles and notes. May the Lord continue to bless you and continue to reveal more and more of himself to you. Keep writing so that millions of women will be inspired and delivered from old mindsets that tie us down..Thank you for wakening women and delivering them the truth,, The Truth will make us free…!!!!!Thank YOu!
LaLonnie says
I am second and quite possibly third generation phobic. I didn’t realize that some fear was healthy while others were paralyzing . I lost the ability to sort it out and what to do about it. Caught up in that mess was my relationship with God, although more accurate is probably religion. Satan had transposed the two, I was lost. I’m recovering in Christ. I would love to read your book and will purchase it if I do not win. Easter has our budget tapped out but next month is an all new again. Thanks
Julie Kittredge says
This would be a very timely book for me. I would love to win this. Provision is something we continue to depend on the Lord for … year after year … and he continues to provide. I wonder if I will ever get rest from the battle. Trusting Him. Waiting for His timing. Confidence and courage elude me so often and I feel weak. But my faith is strong. I Know the Truth … sometimes my heart is not in agreement with my head though. Not sure what to do about that.
Gloria says
Thank you so much for your insight. The last year has been a year from “hell” for me and I have been in a faith vs fear battle with myself, wondering where God was in the midst of everything I was going thru. Thanks for sharing, as it gives me strength to go on one day at a time, letting God lead!
Lori Rose says
THis is extremely powerful. I have been praying that I would be more self-confident through the Lord’s amazing power. I am trying to overcome some major fears and this made me realize that I can only do so through the Lord’s intervention and trusting him completely. I have had trust issues since being hurt so many times by people I trusted. God is showing me over and over again that putting my trust in people instead of him is not what he wants. I am learning to trust him as I move forward with a huge dream he laid on my heart. I know I have to be careful not to move ahead of him but trust him every step of the way and he will bring it to pass. I have faith but I want it stronger. I want faith that moves mountains.
Wendy says
Thank you, Micca, for addressing the issue of fear. I can relate. As God speaks to me about starting my own women’s ministry, I find myself being afraid of failing Him more than anything else. I tell people all the time that I KNOW this is from God, because it’s not something I would choose for myself. And I truly believe that if God has brought me to it, He will see me through it. I also find it NO coincidence that God’s word is filled with “Fear Not” statements. 365 times He tells us “Do not be afraid” or some other phrase that is similar in meaning. One for every day of the calendar year. I think He meant it when he said it! 🙂 Thanks again for being a blessing!
Miranda White says
Micca you are so right about fear, It will destroy your whole life if you let it I know, When my dad diesd I worried about all my family. When the Phone rings I hate to answer it.
I also fear our finaces right now . The thing is I know that God is with me but that fear dose not want to go away. I know it will because I am working on it it is just taking time. Have a great day
Miranda
Laura says
Micca,
Thank you for your series on fear. I can totally relate to knowing God wants me to do something competely outside of my comfort zone. I just keep reminding myself over and over that if He wants me to do it, He’s going to equip me and be there with me. When I lose sight of Him, I get overwhelmed and feel incompetent.
Deut. 31:8 (from the NLT) is a verse I love and find comfort and strength in…
“Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the Lord will personally go ahead of you. He will be with you; he will neither fail you nor abandon you.”
God Bless,
Laura
Elisa Axiotis says
I struggle with fears, real and imagined. When I was little, I was abused in many forms and ended up married young to an abuser. He gave me a permanent neck injury and then pinned me down and shook sweat into my eyes. I have p.t.s.d. from all the instances of my life and often feel like I am pinned under a demon.
Lately, God has been asking me to step out in faith and be more of the talented person he created me to be. Your message was timely for me, so God bless you for that! I not only fear failure but maybe more so success. I have had a lot of things stolen so I need to trust God’s protection more and also set my treasures in heaven!
Maria M. says
This speaks to me so loudly!! I have struggled with fear all my life. I grew up in an extremely abusive home. Fear was a daily part of my life as a child. Because of this I had 2 meltdowns in early 2000 and on medication for 5 years and I am still in counseling. I am off of antidepressants now, Praise God but I am still struggling with the constant fear/depression. I am going to be visiting your website a lot. Thanks.
Elosia says
WOW!! Micca you can not imagine how this spoke to me this morning. I’m caught in the midst of a battle with fear that I have not been able to beat. My fear is that at the age of 37 I will spend the rest of my alone. I know my God above loves me and would never leave me so I’m really never alone but my heart desires an earthly love. I’m truly blessed and there really isn’t more that I should ask for. So not only am I battling fear but guilt for wanting more.
Thanks for your words of encouragement.
Ann says
Elosia: I understand your fear and longing! I struggle with the same thing! I will be praying for you! May the Lord fill your heart to overflowing!! And truly bring to fruitition the desires of your heart! God Bless! ~Ann
Elosia says
Thanks Ann
I will do the same for you. I love sharing this bible verse Psalm 20:4 May he give you the desire of your heart and make all your plans succeed.
Blessings
Annie says
Thank you so much once again for your encouragement in dealing with fear!! I have been thru years of counseling to deal with my worry and fears- your posts and devo were so needed!
Martha T. says
Please enter me into your contest. I would love to learn more about kicking fear to the curb!Thanks!
Latoya says
Thank you for sharing your story with us. It is truly an inspiration. We are face fear sometime in our lives, but the only thing that matters is how we handle it and who (GOD) we depend on to get through it.
Thank You
Martha says
I was so moved by your “The Truth About Fear” blog that I posted it to my Facebook page. “If the enemy can keep us contained by fear, we won’t be able to fulfill our potential or make a difference in the lives of others. Satan knows what we are capable of with Christ.” Your words, inspired by our Father, are so powerful and equip each of us to continue on the journey that God has for each of our lives. I have been following your blog for a few months now (yes, it’s bookmarked!) but had not read “Micca’s Story” until today. Now when I read your blog, I will be praying that God will measure out to you exactly what you need…when you need it. Thank you for your willingness to share your heart and your life with us. It is well with my soul…
Micca says
Thank you, Martha, for sharing God’s Word on your facebook page. I pray my devotion minister’s to your friends in a powerful way. Thank for the encouragement too. I greatly appreciate it!
Continue walking by faith!
Sweet blessings, Micca
Florence says
Thank you for this. I would love to win the book to learn more about letting me fears go and trusting God instead.
Vickie Brumley says
Fear has been the greatest weapoon that the enemy has used in my life especially in the area of marriage. I could use all the help I can get.
Heather says
Micca, finding your posts today met me perfectly in my current journey with God. I am so thankful he’s using your story to connect us back to Him! Thank you!
Loretta says
Thank you for having this book and writing about your own fears. I would love to win and read more about ur testimony.
Melyssa says
I am at a place in my life that I’ve never been and never want to go back to. When someone sins against you, it’s hard to forgive and let go of the fear that it might happen again. I want so badly to be able to live fearless for God! Thank you for opening my eyes to a different life!
Brenda says
Thanks for the chance to win this book. Just last night I couldn’t go to sleep for more than 3 hours because I just kept thinking about all the things I’m scared about. So, your post is definitely what I needed to hear. Thanks!
Leigh F. says
I would love to win the book. Fear of tomorrow has been an overwhelming challenge for me.
Audrey S says
Today’s reading cut right to my hurting heart. In 1993 I was injured and left living with chronic pain. In 2000, after 30 years of marriage my husband walked out leaving me destitute. Two years after our divorce I was diagnosed with cardio-myopathy. Eleven years after the divorce I struggle with fears of my health and future. I came from an emotional/verbal and physically abusive childhood only to go into a 30 year marriage of the same. My two sons now struggle with issues and the pain of a family torn apart. I became a ‘believer’ in 2000 and for the first time started reading the Bible and attending Bible Studies. Although the journey has been a slow one it is only in the Word that I can see a glimpse of ‘hope’. I constantly seek out encouragement to dampen my fears of now and what my worries about tomorrow might bring. Reading your book would help to strengthen my walk and to build a trust within my heart. I have read that God is in the business of restoration. I hold the verse Jeremiah 29:11 close to my heart.
Rhonda D. says
Thank you so much for your devotional today. I have been living in fear of many things for the past 14 years. Fear of failure, fear of disappointing others, fear of others, fear of the future. By God’s grace I’ve really come back to Him in the past year. As I grow in Christ I am really trying to overcome those fears, but some days it is a struggle. Thank you for writing this book.
Alene Schlange says
I desire much to read your book. I often fear. I lost my job last July, and am fighting a work comp injury at my former job. I had rotator cuff surgery on my left shoulder in January. I have started physical therapy. I am an older person and will need another job.
Natalie says
Micca,
What a powerful series you are doing on fear. Thank you for sharing what the Lord has put on your heart. It is exactly what I needed to hear!
leticia minor says
I know what you mean by going around the mountain ; I did for thirty some odd years, I’ve being a christian since I was fourteen years old off and on; and God has always brought me back to himself with his grace and mercy,I love him so much and now he is showing me to trust in his word totally. I just recently let go of my job cause God was dealing with me cause of some fraud going on there,I had a hard time letting go of it, but God showed me that I had made my job an idol cause it was all I did work for 16-17 hours a day Mon.-Sun.Sat.off only.Now I see why also God took me out of that situation,also so that I can draw closer to him and “Trust him in all things”. Thank you for your story very inspiring.
Ann says
One thing the enemy is constantly whispering in my ear is that I’m unworthy and unlovable… Even though I SHOULD know better; even though I’ve read over and over AND OVER again about the love of Christ, I find it so difficult to internalize this unconditional love… I’ve been left by every man in my life; I was hated by my earthly father; I fear that I will be alone for the rest of my life… I have witnessed the Lord’s strength and grace in my life in many other facets. I just struggle with loneliness, and a fear of being alone.
Kristen H says
Thank you for posting this, I needed to hear it today. I’ve never read your blog before, and I had been praying about my fear to God and He led me to this blog. I will continue reading from now on, thank you!
cheryl says
Thank-you for your devotion on Proverbs 31. Fear of the unknown can and will keep us down. Trusting in God’s love and forgiveness for us, giving our trials and problems up to him, that he really does hold us in the palm of his hand is true. I would like a chance to win your book too, but there are many others who have written and are suffering a greater fear. My ex-husband has alienated my four daughters against me. The older ones are out on their own and have not returned my calls for over a year. The two younger ones are 14 and almost 16. Maybe it is the teen-age years, but they are always too busy and their father said that after a court hearing last year, they think they are not allowed to come to my house anymore. I have to pay him child support now. Thankfully, I prayed to God, when I was deciding to break away from this controlling and emotionally abusive man to please allow me to support myself and my children……and to allow me to one day have a loving relationship with a good man. He has provided both of these requests. Occasionally I struggle with fears of being treated with disrespect and being used. Then I try remember that I am a daughter of our heavenly father and try to realize that he wants all good things for me and I must be patient with his plans in his time. Amen.
Kristie says
It always amazes me how God speaks to us when we are willing to listen. I feel that your story is one I needed to hear tonight. Fear has always been what holds me back from experiencing God’s best for my life. He has brought me so far, but continually He has reminds me that I need to trust Him and to be obedient to His voice. I also feel that God is leading me to write or to speak, and it scares me to death. He leads me over and over again to this calling. My prayer is that He will continue to guide my path, and that I would find my strength in Him. I think your book looks amazing. I have also been drawn to the Exodus, and am always amazed at new wisdom that God gives me through this book about the Isrealites.
AnnMarie says
FEAR, we all suffer from this emotion. Thank you for going deep with this topic. Very timely as we are being bombarded on a daily basis with the enemy’s lies. But God, He loves us so much and I know he hurts when he sees how we allow fear to take control. Lord help us to run to you instead of running from you. Help our unbelief, Loving Father, in Jesus’ Name, Amen.
Suzann says
Thanks for the encouragement to trust God. I needed that today.
Barb says
Micca,
Thank you for sharing your words about fear today. It challenges me on many levels, but it also is something I need to pass on to a friend. He and his wife have three boys. He makes good money working, but feels God has called him to be a Pastor. He started school, but now has decided to quit. I have been encouraging him to trust God, but the fear of the unknowns are taking over. I would love to share your book with him.
God’s blessings to you and your ministry!
Jessie says
Hi Micca, I agree with you about the biggest & the most widespread fear is fear of the unknown. At this time, I’m unemployed & my other half is working a job earning 1/2 of what he earned before & to add to that it’s in a different state & so the bus ticket is an added expense. Thank u for following where the Holy Spirit lead you when you began writing about fear. Thank u for being open & honest about the fears you’ve faced…& overcome.
One of my fears is that there is more bills than money to pay them & that we’ll lose the house or the car, the house needs repairs so another fear is will the roof hold up.
Someone from my church told me when I shared how overwhelmed with fear I was, “just like Peter began to sink when he took his focus off Jesus, we need to focus solely on the one that holds our days–if we start looking around at the bills, the collection calls, the payment due now notices, we’ll feel like we’re drowning too. U just have to take it day by day & trust the Lord and when u can’t do that take it hour by hour & if u r still struggling, take it minute by minute cause God never intended us to b grounded in despair but to trust him thru it–he won’t bring u to it if he wasn’t gonna take u thru it” I think of that illustration every time despair threatens to move in
A lot of what u wrote in ur blog clears up questions I had. Once again, thank u!!!
Amy C says
I struggle so much with fear – and that fear turns to anxiety which is crippling. You have overcome so much in Christ. Thank you for sharing your story and giving hope, encouragement, and power through God’s word to all of us who are battling fear in our own lives. I am looking for a personal Bible study right now, and I would love to read more of your story and insights in your book.
Eunice Lai says
I first read your posts on encouragement for today. It resonated so deeply with me and helped me at a time when I needed it that I looked you up. I’ve subscribed to your blog ever since. I would love to be able to read more of what God has taught you. Thank you for all your writings.
Eunice
Michele says
I so enjoy reading your blog and devotions. Enter me for the book, I would love to win a copy!!!!! Thanks!!!!
Bertha says
Fear is making me feel stuck. I’m afraid to go forward in my walk with God. I know it’s from satan. Thanks for your thoughts.
Bertha
Jennifer says
Hi Micca!
Would absolutely LOVE to win your book. Fear can completely consume us…which is exactly what Satan would love. I am currently struggling with it myself. Thank you so much for talking about it!
Blessings ~
Jennifer
Kynthia says
It’s close to 11pm in Texas and I can’t sleep from my mind “racing” as I call it…when I try to explain it to people they don’t understand. Worrying about not only about the present but also the future and the “what its”. To live this way is a miserable existence and I have beeen a believer for over 10 years. I have tried another anxiety pill, sedatives and just staying up until I couldn’t keep ky eyes open….and fear is to blame. Fear about my tamales finances, fear about my children being safe.in a sin filled world,fear for my job and the economy and fear that I won’t reach.that potential that God has for me. It’s all to real and it takes more than just believing but as a scrolled down to place a.comment I saw so many comments and my heart grew heavy. Though u don’t know any.of you you all.are still my brothers and sisters in Christ and I.refuse to let Satan rob not only.me of my joy but I pray tonight that all of you gain the.peace that passes understanding and that WE learn to trust in our God who left heaven to die for.us that we can be His sons and daughters. As many of you I would like to receive the good…I’ve been eyeing it.for a whole but more.than anything I want my.brothers and sisters TO BE FREE!!!! It’s warfare and Satan fights.dirty but everything we need is in our Heavenly Father. I pray.tonight that we all press in and apprehend what He has for.us…He.love, His.peace and joy and that every bond is broken and every head is.lifted high. Micca this was a wonderful devotional and I.will have to.go.back and read the.est but thank you for.posting this…God is faithful.
Kynthia
MADEL CARLINE says
Thank you for your willingness to open up about fear.
Bethel says
My Dad was diagnosed with bone cancer in his skull two and a half weeks ago. God very mercifully granted people’s prayers for freedom from pain for two weeks. This past weekend he had to take two Advil to get rid of a severe headache. I would appreciate prayer for him and my family. Winning the drawing for the book would be nice since it can sometimes be a struggle to rest in God’s Arms in the midst of this crisis.
Micca says
Dear Bethel, I’m so sorry to hear about your Dad. It is my pleasure to pray for him and your family.
Dear Lord, We place this dad in your care. We know that you are aware of his situation and you are in control. Lord, give the doctors and nurses wisdom as they care for this dad. I pray that they would care for him with tenderness as if caring for their own father. Lay your healing hand on him and make your Peace known. Comfort this sweet family by sending friends and seeing to their every need. Lord, we thank you that you hear and answers our prayers. In Jesus Name, a-men.
Leonie Brewer says
Hi Micca – Your devotional today resonates with my soul! My heart is so full of fear for what I have to do in the next days that I am going home early from work today! I just want to sit and cry at the foot of the cross. I know that nothing I do can separate me from my Saviour’s love, but it’s taking those practical steps towards the road to freedom, and they need to be taken, that has me feeling sick with fear. I pray Joshua 1:9 for myself today. God bless you for your ministry to so many women.
Caroline McRae says
Hi Micca – I stumbled upon your page on Facebook, definately a God thing this morning. I’ve been struggling with allowing fear rather than God rule my life, particularly in my business. I loved when you said “It’s when the task is so big that if God doesn’t show up we ARE doomed to fail. God-given opportunities can only be accomplished by divine intervention!” I’ve been trying to work on my own, and when things don’t go my way, I question my dream to work my business, if I am in the right place, should I be doing this or go back to corporate America. Now I know what has been lacking, my God-filled faith! Thank you for these words and for your ministry!
Sheila says
Fear…this is THE thing that I have struggled with constantly. It’s like a weed in the garden that keeps popping up. No matter how many times I try to yank it out. Hmm, maybe that’s my answer. I need to allow the Lord to yank it out. Thank you for being so real, and transparent with your own struggle. Once again, I’ve been encouraged to allow the Lord to heal these broken places in my heart.
Maria says
Hi Micca
I read your devotional yesterday “The Truth about Fear” on the Proverbs 31 devotional. It was such a blessing to me! I have stuggled with fear since I was a little girl. As a matter of fact I don’t remember a time when I didn’t feel fear towards something. Yet I grew up with strong grandmothers who were believers and I stayed with them during the day. I also dont remember a time either that I didnt love Jesus. In the past few months fear crept back into my mind and was threatening to take over once again. But thanks to Jesus He brought me out of the valley of the shadow of death. Some days are better then others and I am now starting to really build my faith in all things include Jesus. I want him to be part of my life always. I know fear is a lie straight from the pit of hell and it needs to be sent back there as soon as it creeps up. It’s hard sometimes I do have to admit. But I just wanted to thank you for your wonderful post yesterday I am so glad the Lord lead me to your website. I also would love to win your book but if not I do believe it would be a valueble resource to me and I will purchase it.
God Bless you beautiful Sister!!
Diana D says
Thanks
anne marie says
Great post, Mia. Thanks for the inspiring words.
luvfresno says
Dear Micca,
I am new to your website. It was forwarded to me from my cousin. It came at a time when I really needed to hear the words you have to offer. I filed for a divorce from my abusive husband last June. I left my home and moved in with my son in another state. I know how God feels about divorce. He makes it quite clear. I could not live in my home any longer but I have so many fears about getting a divorce. I am thinking of returning home and dropping the divorce proceedings because I fear I am going against God!….or is it satan? I would appreciate hearing some words of wisdom Thank you.
Ann says
I’m in no way “wise”… And I don’t know your whole situation. However, I do believe that the Lord intended marriage to be a sacred bond. Yes, He is opposed to divorce, and yes, the bible speaks to divorce in situations such as sexual immorality. However, I also do not believe that the Lord intended a person to feel imprisoned and subject to physical abuse because they were looking at the legalistic views of divorce. First and foremost, whether you are separated from your husband or not, I think that you need to be praying for him! Only the Lord can change his heart, but prayer is key! The Lord can move mountains, and prayer moves the Lord… Second, instead of listening to the whisperings of the enemy, who may be telling you that you’ve done wrong by stepping outside the marriage to protect yourself, take comfort in words of truth: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.” (1 Corin 13:4-8a) “The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them; He delivers them from all their troubles. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. The Lord redeems His servants; no one will be condemned who takes refuge in Him.” (Psalm 34:17-18,22) (You should read all of Psalm 34…) Ask the Lord to guide your path, one step at a time… sometimes, that’s all we bear. With His grace and through His strength, you WILL survive! I’ll be praying for you! ~Ann
Micca says
Dear friend,
In no way does God want you to stay in an abusive relationship. You have done the right thing by leaving. Now, I would advise you to seek help and guidence. You don’t have to be afraid. You are not alone. There are ministries out there designed to come along side of you and help you.
Your pastor will have contacts in your area. Please don’t be afraid to talk to him. He is there for you!!
However, if you feel that you can’t speak with him here is a toll free number you can call. 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) 1.800.787.3224 (TTY)
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Please know that I am praying for you. Press on, friend. God is on your side. “he is your very present help in times of trouble.” Micca
J Campbell says
Thank you for your reminder to trust God with everything. I’ve always been a “fearful worrier” and I struggle with this daily. My father is seriously ill and today I am waiting for news regarding his latest medical tests. When I read from your Proverbs 31 devotional, The Truth About Fear, it really spoke to me:
“It’s not that we shouldn’t be concerned about certain issues of life such as safety and health. But when worrying takes over by keeping us up at night and shutting us down during the day, we move into a place we were never meant to live.”
It’s so easy to get bogged down byall the “what ifs” that I forget that no matter what happens God will be with me to help me through it if I just let him. Thanks again for your encouraging words!
Mendy says
Thank you so much for your devotional that I received from Encouragement for Today. I have been fighting a battle with fear most of my life. At times in my life it subsides, however there are also those times when it feels like it will consume me. I have been brought up in a Christian home and have been devoted to Christ my entire life, however can’t seem to move past the fear. I know that God has a call on my life and so therefore I feel like that is why I am faced with this battle of fear. Your devotional has encouraged me so much and has given me direction on why this happens and how to face this spirit of fear. Thank you for allowing God to use you!
Jennifer says
Micca – Ur story tears at my heart. I could not imagine being in ur position. I know though that if my God can bring u thru that He can bring me through anything also and I can trust Him implicitely.
Melody says
Thank you. I am going to spend the rest of this week catching up on your previous posts – you words are resonating in my heart as my tears break free.
Kathy Potter says
Thank you for allowing God to speak through you directly to me about the fear I am struggling with. I was blessed by you today!