Hello Friends,
Have you ever felt like Annie in my devotion today entitled, Perfect Weakness. You’ve tried to find help and comfort in everything but God. Why—because God is too busy being God. There’s not enough time for Him to deal with your problem.
I’ve felt the same way before, but it’s just not true. Our heavenly Father is not some far off God. He is near to us and approachable for whatever our needs may be. Our Father wants to be involved in every detail of our lives. He wants to know and share in our joys and our pains. Mostly, God wants us to know His love and that nothing can snatch us away from him.
The word “Father,” referring to God, is translated “papa” or “daddy.” These expressions of endearment comfort me as I equate them to my earthy dad, but perhaps you’ve never had an earthy father to turn to in times of celebration or sorrow. Maybe your dad was absent and uncaring instead of loving and available to you. If so, you’ve discovered that not all people love with sincerity and you’ve been hurt by this.
The good news is, no matter what you’ve done, or what’s been done to you, we both have a heavenly Father in which we can cry out “daddy” any time, any place, anywhere. It starts by allowing God to wrap His loving arms around you and wash away all your fears as he whispers to your heart, “I’m here for you—no matter what.”
So, go ahead. Tell God your needs. Lay them all at His feet. Then rest in His care.
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Miranda says
Micca
I really liked your devotion to day. I have a fear that when I leave my problems at gods feet he want answer them. It is my faqught. I have no patients and God is all about patients. I really have to work on this .I have prayed for 7 years that her Mom would change and allow us to be part of her life. I still don’t get to see her. I rasied her the frist year of her life. Then my son and her mother split up andshe would not let me see her just because of her and my sons problems My son dose not get to see her either. We ran out of money for a laywer every time she would break the courts decision nothing happened so there was nothing we can do Her other Grand Mother tells her if she speaks to me she want love her anymore.I amnot giving up on God but I don’t understant why he is not answering my prayers I know I have got to be doing something wrong. If you have any sugestion please post them for me and maybe I can change and he will listen to my 7 years of tears when I see grandmothers spending time with thier grandaughters and I can’t. thanks for this devotional. I am going to readd it a couple of times to she how it can help me Thanks for doing Gods work Miranda
lori says
thank you for today’s devotion. it encouraged me. i have a fear that at any moment something devestating will happen to either my husband or children. You helped me to see that God is in control and if something ever does happen he will supply everything i need to get through it.
Karen Ehman says
Excellent devo Micca! And thanks again for the fabulous message on Sunday morning. You are such a powerful communicator of God’s truth!!!!! (not to mention stinkin’ funny!)
Laura says
Just what I needed to hear as we head out on a roadtrip. Thanks!
Angie Morgan says
Loved the devotion and blog. Brought tears to my eyes!! Need to always have faith and dismiss fear. Would love to read more in your book. Love, Love Proverbs 31 ministries!!
Donna Liberatore says
Thank you for your words, I really needed to read this. God often says, “Trust me”, and I often have found that hard to do. I want to trust Him, with all my heart.
Lisa Maurer says
Even thou I have been walking with the Lord for 30 years this is the first time I have been on my own. As a single mother after 2d years I find myself struggling with fear of being able to make it financially. That is my biggest fear and yet the Lord has provided somehow everyday. So why do I struggle so much? His word promises to provide for food, shelter and clothing. So why do I let this be a concern or fear? I know I should tithe and usually do and yet the last two paychecks I haven’t because I am tying to be a good steward and ithere is not enough to even pay the bills. I have less than $15 to get thru the week for gas and nothing to buy even bread and yetn my head God promises to provide. Why is that not enough and do I allow fear to creep in?
J Wilson says
Micca, OH how desperately I struggle daily with this. It’s nothing as life threatening as your devotional however I find daily how life threatening it truly is. God blessed me with an amazing 7 year old daughter who is JUST LIKE ME! We’re both strong-willed, want to be in control, loud, talk too much etc. Every morning I get up and spend time with God in the hopes that he’ll “fix” me or her. I’m beginning to see the fruits of my not so wonderful labor. For many years I parented as I was parented…yelling, screaming, grounding etc. But what my daughter doesn’t have in her life that I did was a compassionate God fearing Grandmother to run too and guide her. No…she just has me and I’m feel like I’m failing miserably. How desperately I want her love and experience God the way I do but at the same time feel this incredible pressure to make her behave like the other kids do. No one askes her over for play dates b/c she’s ADHD and struggles greatly with self-control and playing what others want to play. That was my childhood and I don’t want it for her so I continually try to “fix” her. And as I continually fail at that I blame myself b/c other mothers can…why can’t I. There are so many times when I’ve asked God to take away my issues of control and make me like those calm, “godly” moms so she can have a better mom. I so desperately wish I could find thankfulness in my weakness but every morning
I wake up with the same prayer…God HELP me do this better. And everyday I mess up again. So here begins another day…GOD HELP ME!! Thanks for listening/reading.
Rhonda says
I have struggled with fear my entire life. God has delivered me from fear just a few weeks ago and now I am having to learn how to live without fear. What an amazing feeling to not have the burden of fear weighing me down anymore, but, on the flip side, what an overwhelming feeling to have to relearn how to behave and react without fear.
I am learning how to become completely dependent on God to show me how to behave and react to situations, but I have to admit, it isn’t easy. My first response is to lash out or tear others down so they won’t have the opportunity to hurt me. Thankfully, the Holy Spirit is showing me where I need to change and teaching me how to apologize in the process. 😉
I understand Annie’s story. I lived Annie’s story everyday for the last 37 years. I worried about and feared the unknown and now I know His peace. Praises to the One on High, that I am learning how to depend on the One who can bring peace and comfort in times of trouble.
LF says
Thank you for the devotion and blog today. The thing that stood out to me was when you asked how many times we’ve prayed for a miracle not expecting a response. I know that I have had such small faith as that and really that is limiting my limitless God. Oh for faith even during hard times!
Thanks for the encouraging devotion!
Leigh F. says
I would love to win the CD’s. I struggle with fear of not measuring up and doubt.
Amy C says
I loved the devotion this morning. I struggle with anxiety and have found a lot of peace and comfort in knowing other women who love God also experience this struggle. It’s also wonderful having other women who will share their struggles and help others walk through them as well.
Thank you for being honest and open. I’m very excited about reading your book and enjoying and benefiting from more of your God-given insights.
Diane says
I could relate to the part of the story where she expected to find peace (or a nugget of truth) from talking to the pastor and that expectation wasn’t met and she was left feeling like she needed something more. When I go through a struggle, I think if I talk to this person, recite this prayer, attend this place that I’ll get the answer I’m looking for, but its not until I completely surrender to HIM that I find the peace and answers I’m looking for.
Dawn says
Thank you for your words of truth today. I am in the middle of a storm and didn’t see anything but death.God used your words to show me He is here in the eye with me. He is here to comfort me and protect me and heal my land of pain and destruction. An abusive husband. A heroin addicted son. God is with me in this valley of the shadow of death. Thank you and may God richly bless your word that reach out to the thousands of hurting souls. Amen.
Tina Prescott says
I can see myself in her place; it’s where we tend to forget that He is always there and we have to remember to give it to Him and He will give us peace.
I talk to God as I am driving to work every morning asking to do His will and I pray for Him to guide me through my daily walk of life. I have to put myself into perspective and remember that He is in control. There are days that I let life control me and then I remember that He is there for me and to give it all to Him.
Michele Caséca says
Dear Micca,
It’s so nice to call you friend today, and it’s so amazing reading your devotional after getting a chance to know you and see how beautiful, caring and loving your heart is.
I’m not leaving this comment to earn a CD. I’m leaving this comment to you to urge you to pray for me. I am paralysed in fear: what is about to come… we talked and prayed together this weekend, but right now I’m back home, and about to restart my life again.
I’m scared nothing will change. I fear everything will remain the same.
I’m willing to let God discipline my heart, work in my life, and restore everything that have been lost and broken.
Please pray for me, dear friend.
I love you Micca.
Michele Caséca
Riqui says
Michele,
Your comment touched my heart! Even though I do not know your situation, God does and may His perfect will be done in your life and I pray that His peace will comfort you like never before.
In Christ,
Riqui
Dorothy says
I woke up with Third Day’s ‘Cry Out to Jesus’ playing in my head, then read those very same words in today’s devotion. My trials are minor compared to most and I feel guilt over that. Thank you for reaffirming that He cares for me and all I need to do is to cry out to Him.
Toni Lowery says
I truly enjoyed the devotion today. How uplifting to know that I have a Savior who wants to hear and help me through my struggles. He is always there for me and is just a breath of prayer away. Just knowing that He is the maker of the universe and has given all of these good things to me\us just encourages me that much more even in the hard times when I may be flat on my back. Scriptures like this will lift me up. I know I can count on Him to be right there holding me up through those rough times when nothing else can give me hope. Thanks for sharing!
Stephanie says
I have been a christian for a long time and I still struggle with going to God with everything. I tend to go to a particular person and talk out my struggles before going to God. I think I will get immediate answers that way. In the end I still don’t feel the peace I was looking for. A lot of times the advice given is not what I needed to hear.
Lord, forgive me for all those times of skipping over you and going to others.
Thank you for sharing this devotional and valuable truth!
Amanda says
Your post was such a blessing for my morning! Your words were true. God is so good to us, He is always walking with us – faith does not make the bad things go away, it does make the bad things bearable.
Suzie says
Dear Micca,
How timely your devotional was today. I woke up talking to the Lord about our situation right now, and He reminded me of the verse in 2 Cor. 12:9!! His power IS made perfect in our weakness…..and I am utterly thankful for that. God bless you and thank you for your encouraging words. They are much needed at this time!
Blessings,
Suzie
Mareda says
Dear Micca,
How amazing our God is! Our pastor preached on ridding ourselves of fear this past Sunday and you just pretty well repeated what the Lord was saying through her words. Gee… do you think the Holy Spirit is trying to get through to me?! God is indeed an on-time God because I have struggled with fear about a certain situation for two weeks now. God in his mercy and grace has brought me to a place of serenity as I surrendered to his rely on his love and grace. Thank you for confirming my experience and encouraging others with this devotional story and Scriptures!
Blessings,
Mareda
jk says
Today’s verse is perfect for those in chronic pain or illness. Most of us think like the world: just endure. Your devotion reminds us not to think worldly, but heavenly, and to keep our eyes fixed heavenward, knowing that we can do nothing without God’s strength.
Thank you, and God bless.
Crystal says
I was just telling a friend this morning that all I feel like I do is worry, worry, worry. I need to learn to let go of my worry and fears and trust that God is in control. But I do sometimes feel like He is too busy and my problems are miniscule compared to the problems others are facing. I’m still learning.
Lori says
Thank you! I really needed this today.
Loree Patak says
Hi Micca,
Thank you so much for the reminder of His promises! I too, struggle with fear. Praise the Lord that He gives us strength in our weaknesses!! Please pray for me as I take a step of faith today. May the Lord give me strength and wisdom as I seek His will.
This is my first time on your blog! I am thankful for God fearing women who share their faith and wisdom! Looking forward to your new book!
Loree
Carrie says
I am learning to turn to God in my time of fear and doubt. Giving up my hold and what I presume to be all my strength (which of course is never enough) is a hard thing to do. But slowly, I am giving all fear in my life over to our healer, the Lord God himself, for I know that he is strong enough for anything we place before him. Thank you
Carrie
Kara W says
I too struggle with fear and anxiety. Almost 4 years ago it started with debilitating panic attacks. I don’t have those as often and am learning to let God hold my fears instead of me. I feel like my peace is coming in little spurts and that my Lord is gently walking me through this. Thank you for your ministry. I am sure it is much further reaching than you will ever know.
Stephanie says
Constantly …..
Lacie says
Oh my this devotion is perfect this morning. The fear and anxiety in my life are overwhelming at this point and I am really wondering if God even cares and why He isn’t doing something to change it. I want so desperatly to find the trust that others have – I used to be able to trust God – but things have gotten so hard I don’t know how to anymore. Thank you for this devotion this morning.
Annie says
Wow! What a great devotional this morning. Fear keeps me from living life to the fullest that God wants me to live it. The me that others see, is not the me that I feel inside of me. Fear is an ever present companion to me and I am so tired of it. I cry out to God and I know He helps me but I still feel so trapped. I want to trust Him more. I think He doesn’t help me because I don’t trust enough. I just don’t know how to get there. I know He is leading me because just this devotional this morning that I read speaks to me and gives me hope. Thank you so much for sharing this with us. God bless you!
Deb says
I, too struggle with this. Although it is getting better, I still find times when I just feel unable to go forward, especially when a situation is new to me. I just always want to KNOW ahead of time what might happen, which, of course is ridiculous. I am weary of this dominating my life.
Shawte' C says
Thank you, this devotion was just what I needed this morning. I was having a woe is me morning and couldn’t seem to get it together. I talked to my mother and my husband by phone and both of them were telling me to pray, but it seemed as if they both were just rambling. Thank the Lord that his strength is made perfect in my weakness. Thanks for sharing.
Ruth says
God is so good! I have been struggling the last two days and feeling so weak. Todays devotion spoke to my right to my heart and I could relate to Annie and wanting to find peace. Micca, you are a blessing. thank you!
Vivian says
Thank you for the message today. It is a reminder that everyone faces trials and struggles in life. God will not give us more than we can bear, but will with His strength and trust He will carry us through if we present our needs to Him. It is easier to say than carry out, believe me. But whenever we feel we can no longer hold on, God is waiting for our submission and trust in His power. Believe in His Word.
K says
Fear and doubt continually cling to me in recent days. I feel I am constantly throwing them off and seeking His peace. To my logical brain, it seems silly, why the fear? why the doubt? Only thing I can come up with is that the one who is out to steal, kill and destroy would love to use this to disable me, to distract me from Him.
April says
Micca, Great devo! Enjoy your writing so much. Power verses I use for fear and doubt are Be anxious for nothing and God gives us not the spirit of fear but of power, love, and a sound mind. (In my own words. )When I am struggling I write them down and post them where I can readily see them so I am reminded of these great promises. May God continue to richly bless you and your ministry. Thanks for all you do!
Rita H says
My son was in a car accident last summer that left my husband and I feeling we were losing him. He is still recovering but in those dark moments I learned that you have absolutely nothing but what God can provide you. And he certainly did provide for us in this time. The lessons we learned through this about who God really is are priceless and he was certainly glorified in it as well. Micca – thanks for you wonderful writing, speaking, and spirit!
Pam says
I’m so glad I found your blog and thank you for the devo on P31 today. I struggle with fear and have heard this same message so many times in the last week. I know I need to keep my focus on God and even though I may present my requests to him, what I really want is for His will to be done – there I will find peace. I feel like your devotion and blog spoke directly to me today. Thank you so much for sharing.
Dori Cox says
Thank you, Micca, for your devotion today. My fears and doubts are small compared to others, I’m sure, but I struggle with money issues, and the fear that I will be in debt the rest of my life!! Thank you for reminding me that I can cry out to God and he will calm my fears, and help me through my struggles!
God Bless!
Cheryl says
I struggle…and then God in His gentle way reminds me He is still there waiting…This past year has gone by in a blur..I go back in my mind to a time when I had very little, but I had my bible and the Psalms…I used to say ” How did David know how I feel?”…I so want to be back where I was when I had the peace that passeth understanding…I am looking for a job now…even though others tell me I am good at what I do…I still doubt..pray I will find the job that God wants me to have…and that I will have the confidence in the knowledge He has given me to do a good job, that would be pleasing to Him..
Pam S. says
Fear, Anxiety… yes I have them from time to time. Yestday especially. It was my deceased mother’s birthday and I was taking my father to visit her grave and have lunch. I stopped at the grocery store to pick up some sunflowers. I had no idea I had walked into a bank roberry! Five masked gunmen stormed the store and told everyone to get down. They screamed on and on to “hurry up” and “do what I say”. I was terrified and numb. At one point I thought they were heading back to my direction and I just almost lost it. Then I started to pray to God to protect us all. Keep us safe, wrap your safety around all of us and get these guys out of here… Thankfully no one was hurt and the robbers left. I was pretty shaken after that, but realized, that was the first time I cried out to God in complete fear with the realization that he would provide for me. This devotion is so fitting for me today. Funny thing about these devotions, more times than not, they zero in on events in my life and are so relevant to my everyday function. God bless you for providing this ministry!
Kim says
Wow..just what I needed to hear this morning. I have been having health issues for over 4 years, without a clear diagnosis, but the main symptom is overwhelming fatigue. I have had a hard time understanding this and why this is happening to me after I have already went through so much, loss of my dad, a divorce, and loss of my job after having to take time off work. I am a single mom and sometimes don’t understand God’s plan in all of this, I know he has one, but the unsettled feelings I have are too much to bear at times, Thanks for reaffirming the truth, That God is still there and hearing my prayers and He knows my every need even before I ask it.
Peggy Clement says
I don,t know if its really fear, I struggle mostly about being rejected.
Lisa says
Micca, thank you for reminding me about this verse. I have many fears and many weaknesses, we also have 4 teenagers so I’m constantly fearful for them. I will say it is very hard though at times especially when your in the midst of the struggles. We serve an awesome God who strengthens us in our struggles, and were able to perservere. Thank you for all you do.
Jen says
I think all of us women struggle with doubt and anxiety. Mine mainly come from my relationships-marriage, children. Even though I know I shouldn’t worry and to cast all my anxiety on God, the enemy is good at getting in me in my most vulnerable places. I enjoyed reading your devotion this morning!
Sarah L. says
Wow! Something that we all face in one way or another at some point & time. To fully surrender to him can be so hard but so fulfilling. My daughter was diagnosed with spinal problems about a year ago. While at this point it’s a bit of a wait & see stage. I just continue to let God handle it knowing that he may correct it through a non-surgical way or use the doctors to do his work. But no matter what, he’s got it all in control & he has a plan. He will take care of her & us no matter what. That with his strength & grace we will be able to face & handle whatever he has planned for her and for us.
I continue to be in awe of the peace that I have been able to have about the situation, but I can because I know that he promises to take care of us.
Thank you for the reminder though.
robin quick says
Thankyou for your devotional this morning. I definitely can relate to fear and doubt that grip you with an iron vice. I have for most of my life dealt with this off and on, but lately it seems that everything affects me with fear and worry. Something I’m learning I need to take to God every day and leave it with Him. Thankyou for your ministry. God is using you.
Vivian says
Thank you for your devotional today. I have struggled with casting all of my needs to the LORD. After a devastating loss and no one to turn to but God I had to learn to completely trust Him for my peace and hope. No one could fill the emptiness and loss that I had experienced. You are so compassionate to others. Thank you dear sister in Christ.
Lee Ann says
Great devotion today! Thank you for posting this! I have struggled with fear and doubt most of my life. I am trying very hard right now to totally trust in God that He will take care of us. My husband lost his job at the beginning of this month and he has been trying very hard to find another one. I have been coming to God everyday, praying that He will be with us and help my husband to find the job that is right for him.
michelle says
thanks for the great encouragement. For me the hardest part isn’t the big things, it’s the day to day faithfulness – get up, go to work, be nice to coworkers, trust God that the kids will be alright all day, etc!
Nanci D says
When we are in the valley of fear and anxiety, we sometimes wonder why God doesn’t help us in that situation. Our family is in a valley right now and we are struggling like big time. However, I can also see God’s hand in this. Yes, there is fear and anxiety; uncertainity and sometimes anger, but we need to continue to trust that God is in control. This is really hard when all you want is a little fixin’ in the situation. I’m a work in progress just like many other women. It is such an encouragement to have people like you Micca, to keep us pressing on. Thank you.
Donna says
i struggle with the fear of what is going to happen and where my next finanial blessing is going to come from. I know that God has provided for me but that fear seems to always present itself to me and i don’t like that about myself. thanks for the encouragement
Janice says
Hi, Micca, I just discovered your blog today through Proverbs 31 Ministries. This devotion truly spoke to me as my husband and I are going through a very difficult time in our marriage. I was not raised Christian and am still young and weak in my walk. My earthly dad was an angry, conditional-love kind of person, and this has colored my view of my heavenly Father. It makes it hard for me to understand the love that my Abba has for me, and hard to go to him in faith. I struggle daily with fear and doubt, never fully trusting that God truly cares for me, but I want so much to have that peace. Thank you for this devotion–since it speaks so directly to me, I have to believe that God directed my hand when I clicked on the link! God bless you.
Sherri I says
Thank you for your words today. They have been very helpful as I deal with my young adult children.
Barb Wall says
Dear Micca–I have been thru quite alot–fear has seemd to follow me–or I should say I follow fear. I would love your CD’s Have a very blessed day!!! Barb Wall
Kimberly J says
I truly enjoyed your devotional this morning. It seems like everyday the devotionals are written just for me. My spiritual walk with God has been full of ups and downs. There are times that I have so much faith in God that no one can tell me anything. While other times with certain things in my life I feel as if I can’t trust him, and that he won’t come through. Before I opened to read this devotional today I asked God Why? Why do I never receive the response that I want with the things a pray for the most? When you said: “What can’t be cured makes us dependent on the power of God. And that In that dependency, His power is given and we are made strong.” You truly reminded me why I go through all these trials, so that my life me be that of a contiunous testimony of how great of a God we serve.
Carol Lightcap says
This is something I struggle with on a daily basis. Being raised in a home with an Alcoholic caused me to fear everything. I had no control over my environment and even now that I am an adult and know about the craziness of my childhood, I still fear. I try to hand it over to God, but I just don’t know how to let go of my end! I would love to hear your CDs.
Cheri Bunch says
Wonderful devotion! Thank you so much for sharing!
Michelle Kelly says
Hi Micca,
Thank you for blessing me with this post this morning! Since my childhood I have had a real struggle with anxiety and trying to control life’s unpredictableness. It is such a relief to recognize that God’s sweet grace and unsurpassed strength are in control and that he will give me peace if only I turn my fears over to him. I can’t say enough how grateful I am for your ministry and all the women who empower our lives through Proverbs 31 Ministries!
In Jesus’ Name, Michelle
Lauri Beamish says
Thank you for your words of wisdom today. Along with fear and anxiety comes another debilitating emotion, worry. We are facing a second possible eviction from our home in 2 yrs., neither being of our own doing. It is reading devotionals like yours today that helps to remind me that God is there, willing to take my problems into His hands and lead us through to the other side. I will add the verses you gave today to the 4 I have written on an index card that have brought me much peace as we face what lies ahead according to God’s plan for us. I am still fearful and anxious, but the more I can envelope myself in God’s words and promises, the stronger I feel.
Jordan says
Micca, thanks so much for your devotional today. I struggle with being weak in a season of infertility. It’s so good to be reminded that He is strong, while I am not. That I am right where He wants me, utterly dependent on Him. I would love to win the cds, to be encouraged and share it with one of my friends who struggles with fear.
Thanks!
Deanna says
Micca,
Your devotion touched me deeply today. My husband went to be with the Lord last October. I hadn’t realized how much I relied on him and all the little and big things he did for me and for us. Going through days and nights without him is very difficult. I know that God has been with me through this period, but I don’t think I’ve given my grief, my loneliness, my pain to Him completely. Please keep me in your prayers that I would believe in His strength totally instead of my own.
God bless you and your endeavors to help women be drawn to Him.
K says
Micca, This devotional was especially special to me today. I have always had trouble fulling trusting and depending on God. My earthly father died when I was only 11 years old. As a result, I think, I could not really relate to God as a Father. I had no experience depending on a man or father. I had an awesome step-father, but didn’t fully lean on him as a father for many years. He married my mom when I was 16 and I married shortly after that. My husband of almost 30 years is a Godly man and this marriage to him taught me that I can depend on a man and we both rely on our God. Thanks for this renewal of my beliefs on my Father.
Misty ford says
In 2005 I was going through a divorce from a loveless marriage, lacking satisfaction in my career and feeling lost. I made the mistake of jumping into a new relationship that was like going from the frying pan into the fire. In the beginning he was a dream but his true self quickly emerged and he was indeed dangerous. At the time I fully realized this I also learned I was pregnant and suspected him to be having an affair. By the time my son was born I was nothing more than a shell walking about. I begged God to help me get out and when my son was 4 months old his father married the woman he was having an affair with. I was despondent and feeling a complete failure, only wanting the pain to end. So I made the choice to take my son and a gun and end our suffering. While in the woods I cried out to God once more begging for help. At that time my son cried and I felt a peace come around. I broke down in sobs. God was always there waiting for me to reach out. It wasn’t easy but with a couple of well placed and used angels in earth my son and I are doing well and living life well. My son is now 5 and diagnosed w Aspergers disorder. He has remarkable insight–at 4 he told me God used him and I asked how so. He says Gid uses me to give You eyes so you can see. Isn’t God amazingly wonderful and forgiving. I am blessed
Alexya Cabezas says
Hello Micca,
My name is Alexya Cabezas. When I was in my second year of college, one morning I woke up and suddenly, I couldnt move one side of my face. That traumatic event in my life, triggered much anxiety to come out. I was healed of this and thank God I can now move my face. However, I have struggled with my mind, fearful thoughts, anxiety, depression and obsessive thinking after that event. Its been a hard battle of the mind..Sometimes I felt it was unfair I was going through this battle of my mind with little relief.. many times I tried to rest on God but had a hard time doing that. Ive been seeking the Lord more than ever through these last 5 years however, sometimes I feel that scripture fits perfectly. When we are weak (in our minds, in whatever is bothering us) He is strong. I am learning to rest on Him and give Him the thoughts that make me afraid. Im learning also to put down the thoughts that are lies and try to rest in Him. God knows its been a hard battle.. but He has brought me this far, I have to believe He will take me much further. To places I havent imagined. And He loves me… I would love to participate to win the cds your giving away. Thank you 🙂
apple blossom says
thanks for the food for thought today.
laura callaghan says
This was such an answer to my prayers this morning as I prayed for God to help me release control of my children. They are His and He is quite capable. Thank you!
Tracy says
I am really struggling. My husband moved out two years ago today. Still seems unbelieveable. So much pain.
Rubi says
I understand your pain. Mine left about two months ago. But PRaise The LOrd! HE is taking care of me and carrying me through the pain. i have to constantly remind myself that HE is the only one who can heal and bind our broken hearts. My prayers are with you. God Bless.
Dana says
Dear Micca
My mama always said “A little fear goes a long way”. While this statement might have kept me safe during my teenage years, it has been paralyzing during my adult years. I worry and fear too much. Far too many times I have tried to rely on my own abilities to over come fear and protect myself and my family from potential harm. Through a recent Bible study I have realized how much I need God and how little I need the self reliance of protection I thought was keeping me safe. Thank you for sharing Gods wisdom.
Carol says
I feel like God is calling me to some type of women’s speaking mininstry. There is so much doubt and fear – is He calling me to this, why would He want to use me like this, etc. So many questions (doubts & fears), plus I don’t even know where to start. I’m single, work in the corporate world and can’t even imagine how this might turn out.
Marisha says
Thank you for the devotional. What a powerful illustration to the example of how we should always have trust and faith in God no matter how bad/extreme our circumstances may get. This was a truly ‘out of human’ control situation (described in your devotional) in terms of living thru it emotionally…thank you for yet another reminder what a wonderful and caring Father we all have and who is always instantly accessible to us!
Tina says
God’s word is always on time. Fear & worry is something I have struggled with for as long as I can remember. My mom was a worrier, & I see my daughter starting this as well. I feel God’s presence & that He is working with me on this & I pray my daughter can find peace in the Lord too. Thank you for being a part of this ministry & for being willing to share. Let us all pray for one another as it seems like so many of us have such similar struggles!
Martha T. says
I am listening to the song ” I Know my Redeemer Lives”. Good timing after reading your devotional. Your devtotional was very good! Please enter me into your contest. Thanks!
Becky says
For several years fear has been a big battle for me. Thank you for the reminder of God’s truth in your devo today. I’m so thankful God meets us in our weakness.
Sharon says
Thank you for your devotion. I don’t know how you do it, except for God quences but you touch an area in my life that I struggle with, fear and doubt. I also thank the women that post their comments. Their is a lot of comforting in your thoughts.
Celeste says
Thanks so much for the wonderful devotional. I have been reading your book and it has given me hope and peace. Thank you!
Jessica says
I just stumbled upon your blog through the Proverbs 31 site. I know it was God’s doing! :o)
Fear has become my middle name. No matter how hard I fight it and pray for peace it always creeps back in. Probably my biggest battle as a Christian. I would love to be entered for a chance to win your material. I have also subscribed to your blog. God bless!
Robin L. says
I am always fearful about every and everything please pray for me.
Jennifer Renee says
Right now I am struggling with fear. About two weeks ago I was riding my bike with my dad, it’s a tandem bike, and the chain came off. The bike fell over before my dad could stop it and I was scraped up. Last week we tried to ride it again and the whole time I was so afraid it would tip over again. I’m also dealing with a little fear and doubt about moving to a new area.
Niccol says
Loved the devotion and your talk Sunday morning at She Speaks. I always think I do not struggle with fear but when I think of the doubt that creeped in as I wondered why publishers would be interested in my work when I heard so many beautiful stories of others’ journeys, I realized that my doubt is really just fear that I will be rejected and then that goes to my lack of trust in God’s desires for my life – the message He put on my heart and His plans, His will… fear/doubt can do small things to me but big things in my relationship with Him.
Jenn says
Thank you for this reminder! I have seen our Abba prove faithful several times as I cried out in utter helplessness. He is already working ALL things to our good as we begin to pour out our troubles and fears to Him.
How great is our God!
Beth H says
Thank you for sharing this devotional, Micca. Fear has been an unwelcome intruder throughout my life.The parallel you drew to our earthly fathers is beautiful. God has been patient and loving in my journey to freedom through Christ. And there IS freedom!
Becky says
Tell God your needs. Lay them all at His feet. Then rest in His care.
Something I need to be reminded of! Thanks
Sonya Lee Thompson says
OH Micca, your keynote devotion on Sunday really spoke to my heart! You are a dynamic speaker. Your message is clear – and I needed to hear it! I’d like a chance to be put in for the CD’s as well. God is using you mightily!
Karen Nolan Bell says
Ok, so you made me cry again, Micca. You touched my heart. At the ripe old age of 57, when I think I should be over it, I find myself still struggling to have total trust in God’s love for me and His willingness to carry me through. But, I still fear. I think that’s normal. I beat myself up about my fear for so many years as my health deteriorated and I came so close to having my life taken from me. However, there is an added dimension to pain, suffering and fear now. I’m still here, so apparently there is still something I have left to accomplish. That gives me a new courage to take risks I would never have taken before. It’s truly invigorating! For instance, I just finished my first novel and pitched it – twice – this past weekend at She Speaks. I also participated in the speaker evaluation groups. Although I was shaking, inside and out, I knew I was doing what God wanted from me – and I survived! I now have a renewed confidence in the ministry He gave me. However, my fear over the years had kept me from having that confidence until I came “this close” to dying. Wow! Isn’t He an awesome Daddy?
Julia says
A wonderful devotion to refresh what I know but need to live. I’be been battling fear as our income as dropped significantly with a family of seven, and with the possibility of losing all income. I will cling to trusting God instead of trying to find my own solution. Thank you so much for writing this devotional and using the talent Gid gave you to minister to others.
kriste marie says
LOVE this devo and loved you at she speaks. I was really moved to action sunday am, and really feel like I am being freed. It was put in such a way I had never heard before and the light blub “finally” went off! 🙂 Thank you for your ministry and this opp.
Darlene says
Loved the devotion and blog, I really need to let go of my doubts and truly trust Him. Thanks
Kelly B says
This devotion really hit home for me today. I have been in a fog for the past few weeks, and I just do not know what to do. At 19, my father disowned me. Ever since then I have had issues. Well I imagine I had issues before then as well, but mainly I just cannot picture a loving father who doesn’t love you unless you do everything right. Thank you for reminding me that God does what to hear from me. With the pain I am going through now, I surely needed this devotion.
Janice says
Micca,
Thank you so much for your devotional today.. I struggle with doubt and fear and I needed to read this today and know that God has all things in his hands. I am praying for more faith and complete trust in him, especially in the hard times my family is going through right now..Your words are such an encouragement..
empty nester says
Fear comes to me in the form of isolation in the midst of a 28 year marriage. I don’t want to have a broken family and yet, as I daily struggle with lack of communication and even acknowledgement from a very silent husband, I wonder how I can continue on. He loves me by being a very good provider, a good father, and a good man. But I feel so lonely that it affects how I function and my whole thoughts. I try to rely on God, but need for partnership in my marriage is something I seem to not be able to get over. He seems unable to change to support or help me
Tammy Karasek says
I have let my fears and insecurities run my life. I’m tired of it. However, I heard this really great speaker on Sunday 7/24 (giggle, giggle) and she spoke right into my heart. Stop comparing, stop collecting (reasons to let fear grow) and LIVE FOR HIM!!! Still dwelling in your message from Sunday, Micca. Thanks a Pink bunch!
Connie says
Wonderful devotion and a wonderful reminder. I know it in my head, but my heart struggles with knowing God is what I need. I despise living in fear and worry, but have trouble believing that God is also there for me, just as I am. I so badly want to feel/know he accepts and loves me unconditionally. I struggle with the belief I am not worthy yet of Him. How do I get there?
Lee Ann G. says
I am so much better than I used to be when it comes to worrying. Now I know who to look to for the peace I cannot find on my own. I still have a tendency to want to worry, but I catch myself more quickly now and know the only peace from it is to turn to my loving Heavenly Father and his word. I grew up with my mother battling a mental illness and worry seemed to overcome her all of the time. It has been a process for me to undue the way I learned how to cope with worry from a child, but praise the LORD, he has changed me and is continuing to work on me in this area. He has proven to me too many times that I can trust HIM and HIS amazing ways. Even in the pain of trials, I know that He wants to carry me through them. What a wonderful Savior he is to me.
Lee Ann
christina parker brown says
(Pick me ! pick me!!) ha ha–
I learned this weekend that what I called worry was really self doubt and fear. being aware is so important.
I loved your talk at She Speaks. It was a valuable message. I think self doubt often comes from comparing others gifts! thankful for you:)
Marge Pedersen says
Thanks for the encouragement and the reminder to stop doubting God and also to stop fearing what He has planned for me.
Irene says
Micca,
Thank you very much for the devotional today. It truly is a source of blessing & encouragement as it always does for every devotional I receive from Proverbs 31 Ministries.With all the hard times my family is going through for quite a time now, I’ve learned to be solely dependent on God’s strength,grace, & power. I’m a full time stay-home mom w/ 4 children(ages 18,15,-boys,twin girls-12) Life’s challenges at hand push me to read, research & at times purchase books & related materials to deal with, find hope & encouragement in the very hard situation. Pls enter my name to find a chance to win your 3 CD set of Finding Faith Stronger Than All My Fear. May God richly bless you!
Kelly Willie says
A couple of years ago I heard Renee Swope speak and it was an experience I will never forget. she ask us to write down our worries and our fears on an index card and one by one we laid them at the front alter where a beautiful cross was. I felt the warmest, soothing, beautiful peace when I did this and will never forget it. Laid it all in the hands of our Lord. Thank you Micca for all you do and missed everyone so much this year at She Speaks! So happy for the ones that were able to attend and praying God does something wonderful in their lives to help them minister to others. ~Hugs~
Cheryl says
Do I struggle with fear? All the time. Fear of failure, fear of embarassment, fear of being alone, fear of spiders, fear of …need I go on. When Satan puts these thoughts in my head I am so comforted in the knowledge that God has and is walking this with me holding my hand. It says that he did not give us a spirit of fear, so if fear is not of God I don’t want any part of it. I stand upon my rock and salvation found only in the Lord Jesus Christ. Praise him, for he is good. and fear, stand back.
Mary says
I’m going through difficult time in my marriage with my husband who has cheated on me 🙁 I pray and pray constantly all day and sometimes I have a chance to get down on my knees and cry out to Jesus. I’m so lost and don’t know what to do and I just want to hear Jesus say it is going to be ok and I will show you a way to get through this but my mind is so foggy I feel like I can’t hear him. I know he works on his time and he is always on time but I find myself getting lost. So I ask for all the prayers I can get. Thanks
Pam says
“Just give me strength to do your will.” ~ powerful! I believe my husband and I are experiencing HIS power in our lives as we are walking a jobless journey depending on HIS provision every step of the way. HIS strength is indeed made perfect in our weakness!
Sweet Blessings,
Pam
Fannie in Kansas says
Thank you for these words of encouragement. God truly is bigger than all our fears. For me fear of the unknown is my biggest challenge. I am at a turning point in my life right now and am having to deal with some unknowns but I know God is faithful and He is bigger than anything Satan can come up with. God bless you for sharing from your heart.
Karen Sweeney-Ryall says
Thank you for this devotion. Sometimes I wonder when it will be that I have learned to automatically turn to God first. it seems sort of silll but recently I have been having to rely on His strength and declare His Word to fight off anxiety due to being homebound (and somewhat bedbound) following surgery. I don’t know what people do who don’t know Him.
Luci says
All my life has one big fear after another and I still have it but I strongly believe that god does listen and I know finally he has brought a good god fearing man in my life because I reached out to him and he saw inside my heart. I have been through rape,insest and molestaion, physical and mental abuse but I learned to forgive for me and I am very grateful that god loves me so much that he fought for me and never let go oh where would I be without him. Things are not always easy but they are possible with GOD. To all of you keep your faith and know that he hears you it might not be right away that your answer comes but he has big plans for you so keep praying and may GOD bless you all!
Christie says
So thankful to have such an amazing earthly Daddy; can’t imagine that my heavenly Daddy loves me so much more.
Thanks for sharing about those 3 C’s I need to give up…and the one I need to remember! So enjoyed hearing you Sunday morning.
Sara F. says
I know fear and doubt all too well, but overtime I am learning that I need to focus on what is true and look to God and His Word. I still have moments of panic, but I’m trying. ; )
Judi Cotignola says
Great devotion, Micca. I did my 5-minute message this weekend on Abba, Father, our Daddy God. This last year has been so difficult for us as everything we thought we knew about our calling and our ministry has changed. I know that we (my husband & I) are not alone in this confusion over what God is doing in our lives right now, but it is still so difficult to keep our heads above the waves. Thank you for the reminder of who to go to….
By the way, I really did mean what I said on Sunday about God sent you to be my “Beth Moore-type” encourager. 🙂
Deana Z says
Hola Micca,
Thjis is my first visit to your blog. Thanks you so much for speaking to our hearts.
Like a baby in my Father’s arms……..I am “UNSNATCHABLE”.
I Love the LORD………………………
Thanks, again Micca
Heidi says
Perfect! So what I needed to “hear” today — the cds would be a wonderful addition.:) Thanks for posting!
Annette says
Afew years ago the Lord spoke to me and said go and find all the “do not fears” in the word, read the stories and let me speak to you… I started and stopped but the year passed and the next began…. That year I was so thankful for what the Lord had spoken and for my small amount of obedience as my marriage, our finances, my health and our teenagers were rocked by all kinds of serious trials…. We found ourselves trusting in the Lord as there was not much else to trust in and I for the most part was not afraid….Praise His name…Previous… I don’t think I would have survived all that came our way that year…. TODAY as I read your devotion…. my youngest (just turned 18 and invencable) left home to hitchhike 1600 miles round trip to visit a cousin. Fear gripped me all over again… I was a wreck all day…I found Hope and peace in your words… Thanks and may Blessings beyond measure fill you.
Mary S says
Your devotion about Annie was my introduction to you and your blog. It won’t be the last time I visit here –
Shannon says
Micca,
I never used to think of myself as a fear struggler until a couple of weeks ago. One of my kids “followed the crowd” into a poor decision. Unnatural fear gripped my heart that this would form a pattern. This blog post was exactly what my heart needed – thank you.
Vonda says
Thank you so much for this inspiring devotional. We have recently moved to a new state, and have some fears and doubts to work through. We would love to hear the CDs.
Kara McAbee says
Micca, I can’t thank you enough for these encouraging words and for your book. I’ve lived in the shadows of doubt, fears and anxiety during 2 periods of my life. While I was in college, I experienced debilitating panic attacks and felt is if I was trying to claw my way back into life. About 3 years ago, it happened again, but this time, I allowed God the room to do a lot of excavating in my life. He brought up past hurts that need to be healed and released. Day by day, he gently does His work as my Master Physician. I’d be honored to add the cds to the tools He’s allowed to come my way to help me discover that I’m “more than just His beautiful mess”!! Blessings in Abundance!
Emily E. says
Fear has kept me from a lot of things – from reading a book to leaving my home. Until I recently realized that until I confess my weakness to God and let Him take control, fear would continue to grip me. There is such peace knowing that I do not have to do anything other than trust the One who made the universe. It is the easiest, yet the hardest decision that I have made.
Marsha Harwood says
Fear and Doubt are the tag team that taunts many of the women I counsel. Who am I trying to kid, this duo is messing with my mind right now as I’m needing to fine tune my book proposal and forward it on to the publishers that asked for it this weekend at SS. I would LOVE to win this DVD series.
Hope V. says
Micca – I am dealing with fear and doubt daily – as I was just diagnosed with cancer and go in for surgery on the 11th of July. I am doing all I can to stay in the Word and Trust that He is with me and will deliver me but there are moments when I struggle with the what-ifs and the whys. Honestly more than worry for me I worry for my husband and 2 girls and how they will get by while I am incapacitated after my surgery.
Elle stevens says
As I’m still traveling, trying to get home from SS, I suppose I’m doubting I’ll make it home before Christmas! 😉 But, seriously, I think he worst doubt I face is when I believe I’ve heard simmering from God and then things don’t work out like I believed. In those times, doubt swells my brain with the idea that I can’t hear from God, that he won’t speak to me, that I don’t know his voice. And that is the worst fear I have. I can make it through anything (illness, disappointments, trauma, loneliness, etc.) if I know I can hear Gods voice in my life. To doubt that is death for me.
Elle stevens says
I texted that comment from my phone. I meant to type that I’ve doubted when i thought i heard “something” from God. But “simmering” is quite appropriate, too! Lol.
Rebecca says
Having an absent earthly father, I am so greatful to be able to cry out to my heavenly Daddy. I still struggle with believing that He is always there for me with open, loving arms. I am still learning everyday that I can trust in Him no matter what the situation. Thank you for your great devotions. I am encouraged by them daily. Your sister in Christ, Rebecca
Tara Sloan says
I know the grip fear can have on one’s life. I’ve felt alone before… and it is so good toknow that we have a Father in heaven who will never leave us or forsake us! This us an excellent post!
Hariri says
Thank you for sharing on doubt and fear. I pray to God feel comforted that it will be taken care of, then I sit down and come up with my plan. I don’t doubt God just still can’t believe he’s loves me so that he’s there for me. I’ve had some losses in life at times feeling abandoned. I know God will never forsake me it took me awhile to know that…now I just have to conquer my fear knowing that God will be there for me no matter what…everyone else including family will never be sufficient. Now I just have continue trusting in myself and start ignoring doubt and know that God knows the plan I just have to believe and know I will be fine whatever the outcome.
Candace R. Havens says
You have played a big role in transforming my thought process as of late. I have had so much going in the mess that is my life… that I have really learned to be obedient to God. You have helped me address my fears and doubts and focus Him. Thank you for a wonderful weekend at She Speaks. Blessings to you.
Amy Dalke says
Fear has shown up all over my life: fear of failure, fear of being unloved, fear of believing God gave me gifts of teaching and writing…but what if I blow it because no one wants to hear my words? Fear of people seeing the real me- and discovering they don’t like me after all.
Yes, I would say there are some issues here…(but writing this comment has been great therapy!)
Val says
Sometimes I fear not that God isn’t hearing me, but that I’m not ready to face the situation in which I’m not in control of.
Fear, surrounds me. Fear of everything is sometimes so overwhelming. Fear of being a single mom and failing my children, is the most staggering one of all. When my husband left us I never felt one second of fear that first night, I know God knew my needs before those seconds occurred. The peace that I felt then still gives me peace today.
But just as I know my Help and Hope come from the Lord, I know my fear is born of Satan and his lies.
Thank you for your devotion today, I needed that!
Blessings!
Annie says
Is it a shock that someone posting here would admit to having suffered through childhood, and even adulthood, without the love and appreciation of her earthly father? Not really, as your words speak to those who nurse these types of hidden wounds, searching for validation, and learning to trust in the unconditional love of Abba Father. Is it odd then that someone should mention a connection to the brain trauma story – both in physical ailment and in being asked to walk a similar spiritual path? Many pray for miraculous healings every day, and many live with the “if there is no cure, then endure” philosophy, but how often do we remember to simply lay our burdens at the foot of the Cross? Is it even more so coincidental that the main character in your story and I share the same name? God’s providence perhaps… I have been diagnosed twice with brain tumors, once in 2004 – having that one removed – and then again in 2008; the current one is considered technically inoperable. And despite the pain caused by the tumor, and the seemingly unanswered prayers for healing, I am able to use this trial as an opportunity for testimony. I can’t say that every day is easy; I am very grateful for my understanding children (I am a single mom) and my loving, supportive church family. However, I know that in my weakness – and believe me, I am VERY weak! – the Lord’s strength shines through!
~ Annie
Jessica Kirkland says
Every day.
Katy Flood says
Hi Micca! yes, I struggle with fear. Fear that I don’t have what it takes to succeed in this ministry. Fear that I am not creative enough, smart enough, a better storyteller, etc. Fear that I left my job and have now gone solo. Fear that my dreams won’t come true. Fear that no one will ask me to come speak at their church. Fear that I am not pleasing God. And the list goes on. I am trying to REST in the declaration that God says “For I know the plans I have for you, DECLARES the Lord…” Jeremiah 29 is where I am resting. I just did a blog on this when I came home from She Speaks.
http://www.katyflood.net/Blog/
Love to you sweet sister!!
Amy says
Thank you so much for this devotional. It is so timely for me at this moment. I never thought I would find myself, as a christian woman,in this position. Although I have not physically had an affair, I had been communicating with someone that I should not have been. This has affected my relationship with Christ as well as with my husband. Please pray for me as I put this behind me and begin the work of restoring these very important relationships. I pray for you as you continue to minister and encourage women daily.